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You know how a lot of people furiously detest the word moist? It makes them shudder in disgust.

Well, plenty of people also hate nibling. You may be one of them, especially if you hate overly cute words. So you may want to skip this issue, and that's okee dokee! Skedaddle! But before you go, see if you can recall an overly cute word meaning "overly cute." It's tw__.

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definition:

The word "nibling" hasn't yet entered most English dictionaries, but it's gaining in popularity. Sources suggest it was coined in the 1950s by the linguist Samuel E. Martin, but neither Merriam-Webster nor I have managed to track down the original source.

"Nibling" is a playful coinage that tacks the "n" from "nieces" and "nephews" onto the word "sibling."

Much like you can refer to your brothers and sisters as your siblings, you can refer to your siblings' kids as your niblings.

This word gives us a cute, slangy way to refer to nieces and nephews as a group, or as individuals without referring to their gender, as in "J. Lo posts with pride about her nibling." For that reason, I think "nibling" deserves a place in our vocabulary. Some folks in academia agree, like Dr. Roger J. Kreuz, Associate Dean and Professor of Psychology at the University of Memphis: "With English speakers becoming more comfortable with gender-neutral terms, such as the singular 'they,' nibling seems like a natural addition to English's gender-neutral lexicon."

grammatical bits:

Part of speech:

Noun, the countable kind: "I got to visit with three of my niblings."

Other forms: 

Just the plural, "niblings."

But feel free to invent other forms, like "half-nibling" or "niblinghood" or "niblingery." What if your niblings are adults? Maybe call them "nibs."

how to use it:

If you don't mind using a slangy word that's a bit woke, and a bit adorable, then you'll enjoy the convenience of referring to your nieces and nephews as your niblings.

I like it. It's faster for me to tell you that I'm blessed with ten niblings rather than three nieces and seven nephews. I'm biased toward all words new and cute, though.

examples:

"Nephews. Nieces. Niblings. Want to cruise on my new ride? I just borrowed it from the hardware store."
— "Satvrday" (Season 1, Episode 8), Reservation Dogs, 20 September 2021

"Oh, you got kids?"
"Niblings."
"...?"
"Nieces and nephews."
— "Stronger Than Hate" (Season 18, Episode 18), Grey's Anatomy, 19 May 2022

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study it:

Explain the meaning of "nibling" without saying "sibling's kid" or "someone you're an aunt or uncle to."

try it out:

As I mentioned a moment ago, some people despise the word "nibling." The writer Olivia Harrison hates the very sound of it, saying it's "icky," "gag-inducing," and "skin-crawling," and that its popularity is "utterly confounding."

Where do you stand on the word "nibling"? Could you imagine yourself using it in casual conversation? Why or why not?




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review this word:

1. The opposite of a NIBLING could be

A. an AUNT or UNCLE.
B. a CHILD or MINOR.
C. an ENTREE or a MAIN COURSE.

2. The Cambridge Dictionary seems to be among the first to include the word "nibling," defining it as "_____."

A. a light appetizer
B. a child of your sibling
C. a complaint about a matter of unimportance




Answers to the review questions:
1. A
2. B

Answer to the game question: "The Legend of Sleepy Hollow."


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