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pronounce NICETIES:

NICE uh teeze
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connect this word to others:

It's an odd little fact that the word nice first meant "stupid, silly, or ignorant."

Over the centuries, the meaning of nice morphed from "stupid" to "showy" to "fussy" to "weak" to "shy" to "subtle" to "sensitive" to "accurate" to "pleasing" to "pleasant." It's the kind of wild ride that really makes you sympathize with lexicographers, the people who track all of these changes. Out of curiosity, I ran a word count on the Oxford English Dictionary's entry for the word nice; it's over 10,000 words long. Nice job, OED.

Anyway! The words nice and niceties in English both trace back through French to the Latin word nescius, meaning "not knowing: unaware, ignorant of things," which should make sense now that we know that nice first meant "stupid" in English.

And nescius breaks down further into "not" (ne-) and "knowing" (scire). 

So, nice and niceties are cousins with words like science, conscience, sc___er ("someone's intent or knowledge of wrongdoing"), and n_scie____ ("a person's total lack of knowledge about something").

(To reveal any word with blanks, give it a click.)  

definition:

In English, "nicety" first meant "stupidity or folly."

But over time, the meaning morphed. Today, niceties are most often small, subtle details or distinctions.

More specifically, niceties are often the small, subtle things that people do to be polite or follow tradition in social situations.

grammatical bits:

Part of speech:

Noun, usually the plural kind: "They're learning the niceties of choral performing: taking breaths at certain spots and not others, controlling the roundness of vowels, holding their feet still on the risers."

Other forms: 

The singular noun is "nicety," but we don't use it too often.

You might occasionally hear the phrase "to a nicety," meaning "precisely, exactly, accurately," as in "She planned her holiday dinners to a nicety."

how to use it:

"Niceties" is a formal, semi-common word.

We often talk about "social niceties," sometimes not even saying the word "social" but just implying it, like this: "He shakes our hands but has no patience for other niceties, launching straight into his pitch." You might talk about people observing niceties, sticking to niceties, or standing upon niceties, meaning they're obeying the subtle, detailed rules of proper social behavior. And because niceties can be such fussy things, many people don't care for them at all: you might say that someone dispenses with the niceties, disregards the niceties, or shoves the niceties aside.

"Niceties" is also perfect for sarcastically referring to basic or important things as if they were fussy or unimportant: "A protein shake for dinner? Sure, who needs niceties like flavor or texture or chewability?" Here's the New York Times: "Traditional niceties like a comprehensible plot and characters got lost in the stew." And here's Nature: "[The US Department of Defense is] free to pour tens of millions of dollars into ambitious projects without waiting around for niceties such as peer review."

examples:

"Wasting no time on narrative niceties, the movie cuts right from the fight to a song-and-dance number."
  — Rachel Saltz, The New Yorker, 22 December 2019

"Police stressed that the investigation was at a very early stage. That some commentators on social media chose to ignore such niceties is regrettable but not surprising. The courts of Facebook and Twitter have often shown themselves to harbor all the regard for evidence of a Salem magistrate prosecuting charges of witchcraft in 17th century Massachusetts." 
  — Catherine Mayer, Time, 16 August 2014

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study it:

Explain the meaning of "niceties" without saying "details" or "fine points."

try it out:

Fill in the blanks: "(Some absolutely excellent book, show, movie, song, or performance) is alive to the niceties of (something)."

Example 1: "I love Sara Pennypacker's Pax, particularly the chapters that focus on the fox's mind. Here the narration is brisk, exciting, and alive to all the niceties of scent in the fox's world."

Example 2: "The accompaniments by Labadie's group were everything one could have hoped for: vigorous, deftly colored, alive to niceties of style and to the singer's expressive purposes."
  — John Von Rhein, Chicago Tribune, 8 May 2011




before you review, play:

Try to spend 20 seconds or more on the game below. Don’t skip straight to the review—first, let your working memory empty out.

Our game this month is "That's A New One!"

I'll define and describe an amusing term that Dictionary.com has recently embraced. See if you can come up with it, and if you need more hints, you can reveal them by highlighting the black bits. To see the answer, scroll all the way down. 

Try this one today:

According to Dictionary.com, it's "a day not easily distinguished from other days, or the phenomenon of days running together;" or, "a day on which one experiences the aftereffects of the previous night’s excessive alcohol or drug use."

It entered English around the year 2005.

It's one word.

It playfully combines two familiar words, one of them being... Thursday.

It starts with the letter... B.

Its number of syllables is...two.

Its first three letters are... BLU.

review this word:

1. A near opposite of NICETIES, in one of its most common senses, is

A. BILLETS DOUX: love letters, or gestures of deep devotion.
B. BROWN STUDIES: states of deep, gloomy contemplation.
C. BRASS TACKS: the real, fundamental bits of a social situation.

2. Ashley Gilbertson describes New York City, and New Yorkers, like this: "chaos, even in the middle of the night. The world's most ambitious people working, walking, buying, driving, selling, riding — the hustle — with _____ niceties. Get the hell out of the way."

A. infinite
B. no concern for societal
C. an aggressive sense of personal




Answers to the review questions:
1. C
2. B

From the game: Blursday.


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